One problem with all of this is that it promotes victim mentality. They are the victims and the other person or group is the perpetrator. This can also be seen in our government, justice system and even churches. It also prevents kids from growing up and makes them less able to solve problems in the real world. Playing the victim becomes an easy way out of responsibility and a way to gain attention, or get what you want. It can also foster moral superiority.
Of course sometimes a person truly is a victim of a crime or abuse, but I’m not talking about physical safety here, which every human being deserves at all times. Obviously no one should be throwing “sticks or stones”, or even worse, at anyone. And students with real and serious mental health issues should definitely seek help. But a lot of this is sheer nonsense. Things have gone too far. Everyone is offended with everything. It has become a way to control how others think, speak, act and feel. This is NOT appropriate.
Unfortunately, universities pay staff excessive salaries to promote this kind of garbage and more. They encourage the notion that any discomfort cannot be tolerated, yet life is uncomfortable sometimes. Growing into an adult isn’t all fun and games, there is some pain involved. Pain and discomfort is necessary for growth, and that goes for all of us.
College is supposed to be about learning, about interacting with all kinds of other viewpoints, about preparing for your future career. Thinking, discussing, debating helps you learn and grow. It helps you understand where someone else is coming from, and perhaps even results in reformulating your own opinions. It is NOT to demand that everyone should think and speak the same way or according to some current cultural agenda. Freedom of speech must be protected at all costs, even if it makes some uncomfortable.
Instead of arming kids with confidence to go out into the world and slay the giants, they are taught the giants are trying to slay them! However, isn’t that what the current cultural agenda wants? To create as many weak, dependent, unquestioning followers because then they can be controlled. Dumb the kids down and make them weaker, not stronger, all in the name of some delusion of equity.
So where has sanity gone? Is it hiding in the cry room?? I don’t think so. The Bible states, “And then many will be offended, will betray one another, and will hate one another. Then many false prophets will rise up and deceive many. And because lawlessness will abound the love of many will grow cold. But he who endures to the end shall be saved.” (Matt. 24:10-13 NKJV)
It’s not just the college kids that get offended either. I see plenty of adults who get offended at the slightest thing. Either adults are getting touchier or maybe they are learning the wrong things from their offspring. Whatever happened to turn the other cheek, kill them with kindness, forgiveness, telling someone calmly how you feel, or just ignoring someone or walking away if you are offended or don’t like something?
We can all benefit from being less touchy. Certainly we can always try to fine-tune our behavior, treat everyone with respect, love your neighbor as yourself, be kinder, but victim mentality has become all too common everywhere you look, and it’s doing far more harm than good.
So if you are offended by this article, perhaps you need to go find a safe space or cry room and let the rest of society live their lives, the good, the bad and the ugly, the insults, wounds and bruises. Because that is how we all learn and grow, and even heal. Not by playing the victim or hiding in a cry closet.
Personally, I’d rather run into the loving arms of Jesus as my safe space. How about you?
You will learn a lot about what is going on these days. Choose wisely!